Don’t feel bad for Tom Snyder and his wife, Mary. Though the space at Hot Dog Tommy’s, their tiny stand on Jackson Street, may seem small as you get handed your Black Russian or Carrot Dog, it’s just the right size for this freewheelin’ pair.
“We don’t need big spaces anymore,” said Tom. “Compacting one’s life is a neat thing. “
As I sat down with Tom on the Promenade while he compacted his life into one story, I realized I was sharing wooden slats with half of the world’s coolest couple, who just happen to own a hot dog stand.
Tom and Mary moved to Cape May in 1984 when they bought The Manor House bed and breakfast on Hughes Street. They had never been here before.
What made them do that?
“Drugs,” Tom answered without delay. Laughter followed a perfect comedic pause. “I’m kidding.”
After they sold The Manor House, Tom and Mary’s excellent adventures continued when they bought the Dry Dock Restaurant on Texas Avenue. They sold it five years later, bought an RV and drove around the country.
Say what? I can almost smell the patchouli.
“We first worked at Grand Teton National Park. Then we found work in South Dakota. I was a buffalo tour guide, a guy from New Jersey who took people through the black hills and buffalo herd at the Custer State Park,” Tom said. “We did that for three years and loved it. Then we found a gig at Disneyworld in Orlando for the winter months. That’s when Mary had this great idea to do a small business. Nothing with “e” in it – employees, equipment, etc.,” said Tom. “That was 10 years ago. Hot Dog Tommy’s started growing and now we have employees. And equipment.”
And to think this Hot Dog was a vegetarian when he first came to Cape May. Not anymore, though he still has tendencies.
“Last year we introduced the carrot dog. It’s a steamed carrot, grilled and served with toppings. We have 19 different toppings. The mashed potato tornado can be vegetarian. We do salads, too. It’s a hot dog joint, but we do have vegetarian options,” Tom said.
And they have housing options. The Snyders split their time summering in Cape May and wintering down south.
“We found a corner of southwest Georgia called Americus in Sumter County – pecans, peanuts and cotton. We park our rig on US Highway 280 East. Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter live on 280 in Plains, Georgia. He’s our Sunday school teacher.”
Okay, now I really do think you’re on drugs. Jimmy Carter is your Sunday School teacher?
“He’s taught Sunday school since he was in the Naval Academy. The only years he didn’t teach was when he was President,” said Tom. “He’s phenomenal.”
Tom’s been a buffalo tour guide, Jimmy Carter’s student, and kept a straight face while wearing a hot dog hat. What’s next?
“What’s next? Did you not follow the chronology of the things I’ve done? Whenever Mary and I stop doing something we have not an idea in hell what we’re doing next. On the Hot Dog Tommy tee shirt, we have our mantra: Relish Today, Ketchup Tomorrow.
“Finally I found a business that fits my philosophy of life, ‘Manana, who knows?’ ”
(Disclaimer – no actual drugs were taken during the interview and writing of this story. We did have a hot dog or two, though.) 
Editor’s Note: This Cape May Character article written by Stefanie Godfrey was originally published in the July 2012 issue of Cape May Magazine
Fabulous Hot Dogs !!!! We will be back
Our second fav family thing after just visiting Cape May is Tommy’s, can’t wait to see you in July !! Great pic last yr w/ my Bro and your sneakers too!
his hotdogs suck overrated and overpriced……
some people just have too much anger.
I’m sorry to hear that! I like the leaner wiener, Christmas style, myself.
Chuck I’m glad you feel that way! One less person I have to stand behind to get my hotdogs and potato tornado!
It’s awesome….the tuna is amazing too and the prices are amazing!!
Isn’t there enough negativity in the world, Chuck? Why bother to read the article if you don’t like him or his food? Did you come here just to bash the place? If so, what does that say about you?
I eat a 99.5 % vegetarian diet which I break just for Hot Dog Tommy’s Bad Dog…with mashed potatoes, baked beans and ketchup. With a lime slushie on the side. In February I dream of that meal, cooked by that woman, served by that man, and eaten on a bench in front of the Atlantic with my honey. Nothing like it!
We love Tommy’s!! I live in Las Vegas now and my sister and niece Tais always look forward to the last week in August and our visit to Tommy’s. A true summer pleasure and wonderful memories for my niece who is now 12.
Well that was a great story!! What a great, exciting life!!! It’s great to know the mystery behind the man under the hot dog! Tommy and his wife are truly inspiring. Here I am, sitting behind a desk, doing what I swear I wouldn’t do, loathing almost every minute of it (there are some great perks I guess). I must rethink my future plans, and make sure they include my dreams of living by the beach, Cape May, NJ or Charleston, SC would be just fine by me. :) I hope I get to come back to Cape May really soon- my heart aches for it and my stomach aches for one of Tommy’s Hot Dogs!!!! Great story!!
I brought pretzels to you one time. I know how you like your pretzels. We live in CM in the summer and winter down south. My two boys came every day to Dry Dock for icecream. We love you Tommy and Mary! Good luck!